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Meeting on home schooling at Al hidayah



Bismillah Al-hamdu Lillaahi nasta’eenahu wa nastaghfiruhu, wa na’oodhu billaahi min shuroori anfusinaa wa sayi’aati a’maalinaa. Man yahdih - Ellaahu falaa mudhilla laahu wa man yudlil falaa haadiya lahu. Wa ashhadu an- laa ilaaha ill-Allaahu wahdahu laa shareekallahu, wa ashhadu anna Muhammadan ‘abduhu wa rasooluhu







رَبِّ اشْرَحْ لِي صَدْرِي وَيَسِّرْ لِي أَمْرِي وَاحْلُلْ عُقْدَةً مِنْ لِسَانِي يَفْقَهُوا قَوْلِي


Assalam u aleykum wa rahmat Allahu wa barkathu ….
Maine quran ki aayat padi – ya ayyuhalazina aamanu takullah waquloo qawlan sadeeda ..
Ae logo jo musalman ho Allah se daro aur sach aur seedhi baat kaho,,,,to inshallah mai is par amal karne ki koshish karunga aaj ki is meeting mai …
Pechley mahiney se is mahiney tak jab last waqt hamari baat Islamic school ya home school ko lekar hui thi tab se ab tak – yaani bas is pichle ek mahiney mai ummat mai bahut hi baichaine ki si kaifiyyat ho gayi hai …aap behtar jaantey hai iski wajah nrc aur cab ka jo mudda chal raha hai ,,,aajkal kuch log jihad ke liye tayyari kar rahey hai , aurton aur bacho ko bhi is mai shaamil karne ki baat ho rahi hai , bahut se musalmano ko maar diya gaya hai kuch jail mai band hai kuch khabrey aisi bhi hai jismey police nai musalmano ko uthaya hai ghar se aur unka kuch pata nahi ,,,,,la hawla wala quwatta illa billah ,,,bagair Allah ki marzi k ek ek choti si movement bhi nahi ho sakti ,,,hum sab jaantey hai bukhari ki wo hadees jismey Muhammad saw ne peshangoi ki thi ki yeh sab tumharey upar tut padengey jab tumhare andar ye  do cheez a jayegi hub ub duniya aur akrahul maut (duniya ki chahat aur maut ka darr). Duniya ki chahat ne humey ek samandar ke upar chalne wala jhaag bana diya jo lehar aati hai usey apne saath le jaati hai usme kuda kadkad sab shaamil hai..
Islami taleem ke saath bhi kuch aisa hi hua mai apna example batata hu aur ye aap sab ne bhi shayad experience kiya ho …mujhe yaad hai mere parents nai mujhey apni haisiyat se zyada mahengey school mai admission karaya ‘frank Anthony public school’ aaj agar aap isme admission karayengey to aapko bahut donation deni padegi…aur quran padaney ke liye free mai masjid ke maulana ke paas bhejte jo agar ek galti ho jaati to humko dandey se peettey mere dil mai choti umar mai ek nafrat paida ho gayi inke khilaaf,,,phir dusrey maulana jo ghar aakar padatey jab mai unhey dekhta to bahana bana kar bhag jata, jab wo mujhe uska matlab hi nahi bata rahey to mai kyu padu, sab kehtey namaaz pado issey tumhey rizq milega to mere ek dost ne mujhse kaha ki namaz padney se to kuch ho hi nahi raha “Mujhey kya mila aaj tak aur usney namaaz padni chod di to mainey bhi chod di.”Christian school mai humey maza aata unka culture unkey aqaid sab bahut achhey lagtey ,,24, 25 aur31 dec, mai school parties hoti , then farewell parties jisme dance music sab hota annual function school song ,,sports day fancy dress . etc.etc..
Muhammad saw ne kaha agar tumme haya nahi to phir jo marzi karo. Unhoney yeh bhi kaha haya imaan ka hissa hai. To is school ne mere andar se haya khatam kar di. Galiyan dena , geebat , namima (scandal) sab maine yahin se hi seekha. Farewell parties mai non-veg hota tha humey kuch farq nahi padta tha ki halal hai ya haram. School ke bahar group mai non muslim bachey beer aur sharab latey apne gharo se chura kar. Ye sab kuch chalta tha.yahan..school ke baad jinhoney higher studies ki halaki wo weaker students the unko achii jagah job mil gayi. Jab practically agar aap chahey kisi bhi school se ho agar aap interview mai apne aap ko presentable nahi bana saktey to aap ko job nahi milegi. Aap higher studies karengey to aapko upper position milegi generally, even meri company mai jo government school se passed out hai wo mujhse upar post par hai. To school ek base hota hai baaki aap after schooling kya subject lete hai wahan se phir aapko option miltey hai. Us sey aap aagey badtey hai.
Agar hum peeche dekhein  qurtuba, codoroba spain ki taraf , is waqt ki sabse badi universities  wahan thi jaise log aaj oxford aatey hai padney ke liye waise qurtuba aatey they . Quran, fiqh , aqeedah padney ke saath saath wo mathematics , medicines etc.  bhi padtey the aur phir usko islami nazariye se dekhtey. Aur phir Alhamdulillah bahut se scholars paide huey jinhoney bahut si invention ki. Mathematics mai sifar yaani zero yahin se aaya. Imam ibn qayyim ne Muhammad saw ki hadees aur greek medicine ko milaya aur book likhi tibbe nabwi jo aaj tak padi jaati hai.To hamara agenda bhi yahi hai inshallah.Mai thoda sa Islamic studies ke baarey mai batana chahunga ki humein kaise padana hai aur kin kin cheezo par zyada focus karna hai …
1.    Arabic – humein focus karna hai main classical Arabic mai. Aur isey thoda sa practical banana hai jaise chote chote sentence ke saath, jaise masmuk, min ayna anta, ana min al hindi , kaifa haluka  taaki chotey bacho ko iska taste pata lagey aur is mai wo interest le.
2.    Fiqh – chotey level se fiqh ki choti choti ruling unko pata ho namaz , zakah , hajj , aur unhey thoda sa yeh bhi pata ho ki kis wajah se difference of opinion hota hai scholars ke beech positive way mai. Phir sab sunnat ke mutabik duaein unhe yaad ho. Aur usool ul fiqh yaani dynamic fiqh kis tarah se har waqt yeh apply hoga. Iske principal kya hai. For ex- music, birthday , banking , etc.. kya Muhammad saw ke time par bhi ye cheezey thi ya yeh aaj ki cheezey us sey different hai  Yeh chotey , chotey assignment research karne ke liye unko di jaye.
3.    Tilawat – mai unhe tajweed ki basic ruling malum ho ,,ikhfa , idhgham, iqlaab , izhar , qalqala etc. meem ki rulings.aur atleast last para hifz.
4.    Aqeedah – mai unhe pata ho ki tawheed kya hai – tawheed ar roboobiyyah , tawheed al ibadah , tawheed wal isma wa sifaat kya hai . shirk kya hai . Malaikah aur jinn kya hai ..
5.    Sirat un nabawi – kyuki bacho ko stories bahut achi lagti hai. To seerah unhe pata ho aur uske saath fiqh us seerah yaani seerah ki understanding , aaj ke halaat mai iski kaise samajhna hai aur nabi ki life se examples nikalney unko aatey ho. To yeh hai fiqh us seerah.
6.    Then story book mai story of prophets , stories of sahaba and sahabiyaat .
7.    Bacho ko cartoon bahut pasand hai to wo apna bahut sa waqt isme barbaad kartey hai . to Islamic cartoons stories wagerah unhe yahin dikhayi jaye – muslim kids tv mai pehley bata chukka hu.
8.    Then wrestling or martial arts boys alag, girls alag inkey chotey chotey competition ho , training ho . Inko yahin sikhaya jaye atleast inki normal exercises. Kyuki jung e  khandaq mai aurtein bhi Muhammad saw ke saath thi aur unhoney bhi barabar saath diya tha. Then swimming  if possible unko horse ki sawari karai jaye bahar le jakar aur yeh sab sunnah hai.Atleast mahiney mai ek baar ,,isme fun bhi hai aur yeh sunnah bhi hai..
9.    Mai isey home schooling isliye kehta tha kyuki – kids school kholney ke liye ya phir normal schools kholney ke liye – humein bahut si govt. formalities puri karni padti hai …phir approval milta hai. Starting mai hum yeh keh rahe hai ki hamare yahan wo bachey aatey hai jo school nahi jaatey aur home schooling kartey hai to hum unki help karte hai yaani kind of tution center. Agar inshallah hum 10th aur 12th tak padaney mai kamyaab huey to students apna exam nios ya phir mai recommend karunga igcse se dekar wo aagey inshallah apna career bana sakte hai. Muhammad saw ne kaha cheezo aasan banaya karo aur mushkiley na paida kiya karo.
10.                       Mission of school aur iski tagline – Quran humein encourage kata hai ki hum apne aas paas ke halaat ko dekhey aur samjhne ki koshish karey. Hamara mai goal hai “FALAH” ek balance attitude qayam karna. Na hi duniya ke peechey shiddat se bhagna aur na hi isey puri tarah se chor dena.
Falah-  difficult to find one word in English to define it  • Derived from the Arabic flt, aflah, yuflihu
To strive to become happy, to be successful, to strive to be in a better position
Fi duniya wal akhirah –
This world – survival, freedom from wants and power and honor
Hereafter – eternal survival, without poverty, freedom, eternal prosperity, everlasting glory, knowledge free of all ignorance 
Taken from surah muminoon Allah describes –

  1. Qad aflahal mu'minoon
  2. Allazeena hum fee Salaatihim khaashi'oon
  3. Wallazeena hum 'anillaghwimu'ridoon
  4. Wallazeena hum liz Zakaati faa'iloon
  5. Wallazeena hum lifuroo jihim haafizoon
  6. Illaa 'alaaa azwaajihim aw maa malakat aimaanuhum fa innahum ghairu maloomeen
  7. Famanib taghaa waraaa'a zaalika fa ulaaa'ika humul 'aadoon
  8. Wallazeena hum li amaanaatihim wa 'ahdihim raa'oon
  9. Wallazeena hum 'alaa Salawaatihim yuhaafizoon
  10. Ulaaa'ika humul waarisoon
  11. Allazeena yarisoonal Firdawsa hum feehaa khaalidoon

Subhan Allahi wa bi hamdi wa nashau allah ilaha illah wa ashadu anna Muhammad abduhu wa rasoolu hu …
Sab log apna apna points rakh dey one by one ….


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